@mcknappers: Not to put too fine a point on it, we are of the opinion that Cole came to Philly as a rube, as a hick, and that it fell to Heidi — God help all of us — to show this young man something of how the world works. To usher in a bit of sophistication. To school him, as no doubt she had been schooled (albeit poorly, apparently), in how to handle fame, the media, notoriety, and so on. Best we can tell, Cole is really out of his element here (a theory borne out well in interviews, where he often seems to be repeating talking points, George W. Bush-style) and indeed, instead of truly “helping” him, Heidi — a media-born creature if ever there was one — has chosen to graft her own Brangelina desires onto Cole, rather than actually teaching him anything. In short: Heidi knows better (a tremendous benefit of the doubt, I agree) and Cole doesn’t. It’s that easy.